2007年9月8日 星期六

#6 the right age to get married

what is the right age to get married? i think the opinions vary from person to person due to people come from differnt backgrouds. some people may think that marriage is about the right person but nothing about age. others may think that they would like to get married as soon as possible when they are young because they have more and better choices for their marriages.
if i have choices, i will say that spending my lifetime with the right "person" is more important than at the right "age" to get married. but if you ask me what is the right age to get married, i will answer you that age between 28 to 30 is a perfect age to get married. maybe you'll ask me why? let me explain this.

first of all, in general, people at age of 28 are supposed to have lots of social experiences interacting with other people and which would offer them enough opportunities to discover themselves who they are and what they want. they are supposed to in matural stage of mind and which would lead them or guide them to pick good choice for themselves. another reason is adaptation. to live with another person coming from drfferent background is another thing, even they love each other very much, they still need more time to adjust themselves to the little, tiny living things happenng in their daily life. the other reason is the consideration of eugenics. if the couple would like to have chilren, it is better to deliver chilren before age of 35.

all the reasons above can explain why i support taht people at age from 28 to 30 is the perfect time to get married. however, i still have to mention that to find a right person to get married is more important than at the right age to get into a marriage.

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leinster 提到...

many people emphasize the age rather than the the rest. i really respect your opinion.